For Men Only (Ladies)
Written by Michael Obiomah
Do you like Girls?
They could be a load of trouble but when you balance it all up, they are a necessary evil. Luckily, I found my life partner quite early and don't need to bother too much about their activities... however I'd like to share a few fundamental "tips" on how to successfully toast a female. {Please note that these are my own ideas....not universally proven}
1 Ensure that you can always generate conversation. Talk more about the things she is interested in,it guarantees that she's always involved in the gist. Sometimes the ladies get bored from too much lecturing and get distracted.
2 Look good. It never hurts to look good. We have heard so many times that the first impression creates a lasting one but I tell you that you don't have to look good just once. It is necessary that you keep a cool collection of garb accessible at all times, as looking good is definitely a very big advantage.
3 Make Her Priority. As much as is possible, remember the things/dates that are important to her and keep them "holy". I guarantee that she NEVER wants to tell you her birthday twice (or more).
4 Gifts don't hurt. I know the not-so-wealthy brothers are saying "GIFTS HUH!!!" but you don't necessarily have to starve to get your girl the smallest gift. IMAGINE:- you go out at 5pm to have a beer with your buddies and watch the game,while your girl stays home alone (and bored). Return at midnight empty-handed and you'd probably get a tongue lashing, but come back bearing gifts (even suya can do the trick here) and you might even get laid.
5 Avoid big lies. Sometimes I tell people "I didn't lie,I just didn't say the truth" and they wonder what the difference is. There's a difference between straight up lying and not telling the truth (especially when you're not obligated to) and when you master the art of not telling the truth, you always leave room to manoeuvre.
6 Be a gentleman. Believe it or not,it is easier to be a gentleman than a thug. People often confuse bad manners for "ruggedity" and this observer has seen how many people have benefited from the ungentlemanly behaviour of competing suitors. Nobody is asking you to go "soft" but really, being a gentleman is a sign of high intelligence and would always trump unruly behaviour.
When you have perfected the art of being a gentleman and you remember the little perks, you just need one more thing and your player's card is ready.....
7 Style This is the holy grail of a true player. You need to have style. Loads and loads of it. Style don't mean being rich, cos one don't guarantee the other. You could be rich and have no style...& on the flip side,you could have style without bags of money.
Read through again if not satisfied, and feel free to share your thoughts. This is not a universal manual,but I can tell you this here and now ....follow these guidelines,and your "luck" with the ladies is sure to improve.
Congratulations to the French {African} national team on your World Cup victory....now Mr Green owes me N10,000. Allez les Blues'.
Have a great week ahead.... Cheers.
Do you like Girls?
They could be a load of trouble but when you balance it all up, they are a necessary evil. Luckily, I found my life partner quite early and don't need to bother too much about their activities... however I'd like to share a few fundamental "tips" on how to successfully toast a female. {Please note that these are my own ideas....not universally proven}
1 Ensure that you can always generate conversation. Talk more about the things she is interested in,it guarantees that she's always involved in the gist. Sometimes the ladies get bored from too much lecturing and get distracted.
2 Look good. It never hurts to look good. We have heard so many times that the first impression creates a lasting one but I tell you that you don't have to look good just once. It is necessary that you keep a cool collection of garb accessible at all times, as looking good is definitely a very big advantage.
3 Make Her Priority. As much as is possible, remember the things/dates that are important to her and keep them "holy". I guarantee that she NEVER wants to tell you her birthday twice (or more).
4 Gifts don't hurt. I know the not-so-wealthy brothers are saying "GIFTS HUH!!!" but you don't necessarily have to starve to get your girl the smallest gift. IMAGINE:- you go out at 5pm to have a beer with your buddies and watch the game,while your girl stays home alone (and bored). Return at midnight empty-handed and you'd probably get a tongue lashing, but come back bearing gifts (even suya can do the trick here) and you might even get laid.
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| The gift of Assurance |
5 Avoid big lies. Sometimes I tell people "I didn't lie,I just didn't say the truth" and they wonder what the difference is. There's a difference between straight up lying and not telling the truth (especially when you're not obligated to) and when you master the art of not telling the truth, you always leave room to manoeuvre.
6 Be a gentleman. Believe it or not,it is easier to be a gentleman than a thug. People often confuse bad manners for "ruggedity" and this observer has seen how many people have benefited from the ungentlemanly behaviour of competing suitors. Nobody is asking you to go "soft" but really, being a gentleman is a sign of high intelligence and would always trump unruly behaviour.
When you have perfected the art of being a gentleman and you remember the little perks, you just need one more thing and your player's card is ready.....
7 Style This is the holy grail of a true player. You need to have style. Loads and loads of it. Style don't mean being rich, cos one don't guarantee the other. You could be rich and have no style...& on the flip side,you could have style without bags of money.
Read through again if not satisfied, and feel free to share your thoughts. This is not a universal manual,but I can tell you this here and now ....follow these guidelines,and your "luck" with the ladies is sure to improve.
Congratulations to the French {African} national team on your World Cup victory....now Mr Green owes me N10,000. Allez les Blues'.
Have a great week ahead.... Cheers.
Lol..great article..u said d most.. Most guys dese days are eida talkative bout wat dy want or demselves not focusin on d topic dt interests d girl or dy juz dont say shii n it becomes boring..Wateva happen to bin on d average..tryna make her laugh n all
ReplyDeleteLol..great article..u said d most.. Most guys dese days are eida talkative bout wat dy want or demselves not focusin on d topic dt interests d girl or dy juz dont say shii n it becomes boring..Wateva happen to bin on d average..tryna make her laugh n all
ReplyDeleteIt's not strange to note that most guys, like to talk about themselves and what they know. Think about it ...what do you really know, about what women know. You're in luck, when you find a girl you can actually relate with. Sometimes, it's safer to let her lead.
DeleteYour writing intrigues me.
ReplyDeleteIt goes to show how much of an intelligent person you are, and anyone who decides not to emulate or who disagrees with you does so at his own risk.
Keep up the good work darling person 🌹
Thanks for your kind words.
DeleteThanks for the feedback. Very appreciated
ReplyDeleteSo on point. Keep it up
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